In these modern times, dating is the last thing on a woman’s mind when it comes to choosing a partner. As women, we have more things on our mind such as housework, house chores, and raising children. So when we go out with the guys, we often find ourselves feeling guilty. We want to keep the guy we’re with from turning us into a wife and mother, so we wait for our date to become “romantic”.
Romanticism is an art. It takes practice. People who put in the time and effort will get the results they desire. If you are looking for love, a relationship, or someone to spend your life with, then being a good role model for women is the key.
Just take a look at the first impression you make. It’s not always positive. Remember, men and women are two completely different species. I know that some men think that men and women are interchangeable. However, even though both genders are complex, you are still a unique individual.
Some people in the dating world do not believe in dating in general. They prefer “hanging out”. I call this, “turning a blind eye to the danger”. If a guy starts to flirt with you, then tell him to turn it off. Don’t ever just don’t call your ex back if you still have feelings for him. Not only will you scare him away, but if you date someone else, you are also letting him know that you have other plans. This is the worst thing you can do for yourself.
Try to avoid making him wait for an answer. Go out on dates with him, but leave the next one for later. You don’t have to wait until the last minute to see the results of your efforts. If you wait, you will not only give up your chance of getting a guy to fall in love with you, but you might also lose a guy who likes to chase women.
Don’t ever let your work catches up with you. Be very organized. Be prepared. Let your true self shine through.